Gitr, you’re out! Grimr, you’re out! Lockr, you’re out! Priestr, you’re out!
All of my toons were /gkicked from FoA last night. Actually, Lockr /gquit the guild, got the attention that was due, but the result was everyone being pulled. Do I care? Not really. It’s just a game. I still like the people, but the frustration and aggravation associated with guild/alliance raids is more trouble than it’s worth.
What I have a problem with is: as a person with a life (i.e., girlfriend [going on fiance shortly], full-time job, social life at least 4 evenings per week, and other things I like to do away from my computer), I want to actually get to do what is planned when I sit down to play World of Warcraft. What has now happened three (3 for those of you in Rio Linda) times in the last month is that I have signed up for a special time to play in a raid and either not been allowed in or really delayed getting in as they try to find someone *other than me* to get there.
The excuses have ranged from signing up too late (I was the 1st warrior and 3rd rogue/dps this time), don’t have good enough gear (got 2 upgrades this week and got the shaft on that OEB 2 weeks ago that went to a PALLY), and that I’m the wrong spec (I was being considered a warrior as a tank instead of dps, so again -gear-). I signed up on Thursday, called my girlfriend and let her know I planned on being back from the beach with her in time to play. We even had to leave the beach early so she could finish her papers for her management course. I kept Alt-Tabbing in her way to make sure I stayed signed in and got the invite. So what happened?
I never got an invite. The raid was still full from the first run of the afternoon and they were not able to take down Domo. So, instead of going by the list to make sure that those who signed up to play got to, I was denied play time on my one chance to go to MC this week. Why am I paying $15/mo to not play where I want to and where I should be entitled to per the sign-up list?
The raid leader keeps talking about “the best thing for the guild.” Should it be that, or the best thing for those playing? Do those that already play 80 hours per week be allowed to keep playing at the personal expense of those who have to sit out on “their night to play?”
I might add to this soon, so check back later, if you care to.
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Addendum:
Why even have a sign-up sheet if you’re just going to base the composition on who is there and who fits your ideals for a raid?
I was at the point where it was: if I’m going to be repeatedly denied access to MC rep and gear, then I might was well not sign up or be a part of the guild. I’ll get my Dungeon 1 and Dungeon 2 sets some day, some how, and play with the same people that I’ve enjoyed playing with all this time.
I just refuse to be yanked around all the time, expecting to get to play and be told no. I have to deal with that enough in my romantic relationship of expecting to go here or there and eat this or that only to concede to the wishes of the other person. WoW is MY time to play, and if I’m not going to enjoy it because my plans are repeated ruined, then I’ll find others to play with or find another way to play the game.
I think that about covers it as far as my feelings go. I’m out unless I can be assured that the DKP I have earned can be used to get the gear or weapon that they are saying I don’t have. I hope that the members of the guild realize that this is strictly a raid organization/leadership decision, not as a reflection of the members of the guild itself. I certainly didn’t burn any bridges with the people, and was getting my fair share of whispers from people after I was kicked.